Christina, 11 years old wrote:
I need help… I am under a lot of of pressure with my school work and I know it’s early, but I’m already stressing about other stuff in school. Some people say facials or massages will be perfect for this, but I’m not so sure… how should I relax myself?
Stress isn’t good for you or your school work! It just makes things harder. So it’s good to try to find some way to help you relax. The trick is to find something that will take your mind off of the things that are stressing you out! Different things work for different people, but here are some ideas to start.
Exercise! Playing a sport, having a dance session in your living room, or even walking are great ways to de-stress.
Read! Dive into a good book, it’ll keep your mind on the story and off your stress!
Create! Try cooking, knitting, making music, writing a story, painting… anything to get your creativity flowing! It’ll give you something fun to focus on.
Talk it out! It’s easier to figure out problem if you talk about them! Tell your family and friends about what you’re stressed about and why, or even write it down in a letter or diary.
The best thing about these de-stressing activities? They’ll actually help you with your school stuff later because you’ll feel better, be refreshed and refocused. Cool, right?
What do YOU do to relax or de-stress, FPgirls? Share your relaxation tips in a comment below!!
Need more ideas? Try pampering yourself with a face mask!

Hehe im a little late on this but i wanted to share something xD.Well, I’m not stressed about school, but about other things. But here’s my secret destresser: what i call my venting journal! It’s what it sounds like: a journal that you vent in! Kind of like a diary. Sometimes I can’t take it, so I write it out. Also, it works when your sad too!
- Potato
P.S. reply if you think it’s a good idea ♥
lovablefashions — I’m replying! good idea!
I try really hard and I don’t get it
True but I’m in 4th grade
this a good tip cause i have nerve problems if someone is on my nerves eitheir myveye jumps or my legs or shoulder anything
popstar908, I have an F in math too! I’m so stressed out. I want to make it an A, and I am totally beating up on myself for not doing better. Even though my mom says just because I have one F doesn’t mean I’ll fail 4th grade, I’m still afraid I will!
What I Do To De-Stress:
I think of 5th grade (if I even make it there!), how I’ll be able to start off fresh and new. New report card, new grading, new!
well the boy I just started dating is amazing but one of my friends tries to face time him all the time and I have a really bad grade in science so I am grounded uggggg I hate 7th grade!!!1
I’m moving and have all of this too :/
You’ll never guess what I just found out!! I just got my report card a couple of weeks ago, and I have a BIG FAT F in Science and Math!! I’m super stressed out! I have no idea what happened. I was one of the top people in Math class, and for some reason, i got the worst grade!! But Language Arts does make up for it… A+, and I’m also off the charts in my reading level!
I’m in fifth grade, and it’s torture!!!!!!!! I’m homeschooled, but last semester I went to a public school, and it’s so hard!! My mom says that she started pre-algebra in eighth grade, but my teacher started me in grade 5! AAAHHH! Plus, my best friend Arianna turned on me, my other best friend Ali (from up in Oregon, i just moved to California) won’t respond to my multiple calls, texts, emails, and hand-written letters, and I’m facing so much peer pressure!! I also just sent in my questionnaire to possibly be in the magazine Discovery Girls, so I’m freaking out about getting in there, 2! I hate fifth grade!!!!
Same problem I have like you have with Ali… My friend is in CA and I am in WA… She never responds!
I have sooo much work all the time and it doesn’t stop coming!!! >:(
Actually where is sk8tr grl?
elove927 you shouldn’t have put up with that I mean being called a nerd and getting shoved into lockers you should tell a teacher.
My friend Laci I was just standing there and she said ” Stay out of this Bellah!” And again what she did was shed said” Don’t go whining to my mom and say Laci hurt my friends feelings. And my siblings drive me crazy that I can’t even do my homework or read I have 3 sisters one 8 one 6 and one 4 and they drive me crazy. Plus I have homework that is hard.
i have trouble with my homework sometimes i star at 3;00 and end at 5;00
Me to fpgirl1097
I do the same thing!!! the lights in our classroom room are so bright and it makes my head hurt so bad every day!!!!!!
I’m 10 and I need help my best friend is trading me for another girl. She’s gone as far to call me a idiot.
It’s not ok for your friend to call you names, lovemileyc. The best thing to do is to talk to her about it and tell her how you feel. That way you can both understand each other and what might be wrong!
Listen to music.
That always helps me.
mee to always helps when I lose myself
geez, I so get it. I stay up till 9:00 doing homework and other things I need to do like planning an outfit. I have to get up at 6:00 a.m. to get to school on time. I need way more sleep than that. I suggest you do school work in sections- like, do 5 math problems, then take a 5 minute break. I’m in fourth and all my teachers are nice and supportive. if I say I have a problem with homework, they help me work it out. maybe you should talk to your teacher about it. parents are the same case. you could plan a study date with friends. everything (well, almost everything) is better with a friend. plus you get both social time and homework time done. if you just want to relax, try doing something you like. in some rare cases, you can do both at the same time! I do multipulcation while listing to music. I know your a lot older than me, me being 9, but I,m pretty sure we got the same case.
My schoolwork is so much that I go to bed at 12:00 at night:(
I know what u mean.Well…………………..I’m only in the 3rd grade but I still get stressed over my homework
I honestly don’t believe you!!! I was in third grade and I went to the YMCA after school care, I would do it there sooooo fast ( doing it fast meant it was very easy) the counselors wouldn’t believe me and they made me do it over again, Don’t over think, you’re too young! Be a kid! Have fun! You are only in third once! (Well usually.) Don’t over think it!
I know about letter grades. B’s and C’s and D’s and F’s are hideous to SEE! Thinking of it makes me get nightmares about getting bad grades. Like a report card with lots of B’s and maybe a couple of C’s.
I’m in 4th grade.
I am in 6th but i am homeschooled. It is the first year though. So when i need to relax i just read my bible, and go hang out with my sisters!!!
Talk about it! Talk about your stress with your mom (or guardian), friend, sister, or teacher. Also, you can get a massage or a facial, but the best ways are to…
Talk;
read;
do the things you like to do;
or put your words on paper.
-CookieGirl
5th grade Math get me stressed out i dont like it but i wanna be a vet so my dad said i better get used to it and learn to like it lol!
Jeez, I know that feeling. You just need to not be so hard on yourself. Do something that makes you feel better. I think that extra curricular activities can really help. Studies have actually shown that if you do sports and stay active it can help you with school. Just remember that if you make a mistake it’s OK you just need to learn from it!
Also sometimes a good nap can help.
Love,
SSGirl
i say, try not to keep your stress a secret. PEACE!!!:D
i am sterresable in studing
I’m in 4th grade and it’s sooooooo easy! (partially because I’m a straight A student) But try reading. That always does the trick
yeah, but wait till sixth!!!!!!! yeah that’s when it gets complicated…. its usually not just school work it can be drama too
I agree! :/
Not to be a downer but i totally agree!
~Smileygrl
yeah, the guys become jerks (I know this for a fact)
your friends can turn on you (that happened to me in 5th not this year)
the teachers are stricter (at least every teacher loves me)
There are more but I cant think of them now
i am 5th grade yet only 10 and it is SOOOO hard they are teaching you stuff from like high school-college and give you BOATLOADS of homework and i mean LOTS! The things i found that help me keep unstressed is reading it helps me alot including before a SWYK
( show what you know ) quiz :MRGREEN:
just wait until 7th grade….algebra and geometry….sooo hard
wait until u get to 7th there are cat fights, labels, bullies,HW,friend drama, Im a straight A student and its still really hard. Im being called nerd and getting shoved into lockers because I’m so small. Its not that easy.
OMG thats horrible! You shouldn’t have put put up with that, i mean getting called nerd and shoved into lockers. Trust me, we all have friend drama.
~Smileygrl
to relax I have fun, play with my friends, and design!
im in 6th grade : ( so stressful even though I get straight A’s
I am too. But I don’t go bragging! It makes other people feel bad!!!!
It’s so easy. In 4th grade to get straight A’s you don’t even have to study. It’s effortless.
I’m sorry! I don’t really get this. Because I’m a self-proclaimed 10-year-old and gets straight A’s ALL the time. But those tips re great for you to follow. They may be great tips.
-number6chic
Don’t have to brag! Some people aren’t straight A!
I’m sooooo stressed! I have 2 get my grade up in science before I get my report card! I only have a week and a half and I have a D in science! I need to get my grade up 2 a B+.
soo hard
well what grade are you in? i’m in 7th, its not that hard.
6th
i’m in 7th…but my school has advanced classes:(
I’m in 4th! It’s EASY PEASY!
I’m in 4th!
fourth is a breeze, I loved that year!
I feel sad for you eiffeltowergirl. That’s normal for older girls I guess. Maybe you should try studying all night. That’s what I did to get an A on science. And maybe you might get an A+. I hope. But in our school we don’t do pluses and minuses.
READING!!!!!
It takes you to a different world and helps you not think about the stuff going on in your life.
Later,
yellowhair
P.S.
Praying to God WILL calm you!
I am almost always stressed out and a GREAT way to cool of that ALWAYS works is praying. You can pray that God will help you in you schoolwork or whatever it is that you are stressed about. He is always there to help you.
Later,
yellowhair
P.S.
Worrying does nothing but stress you more.
ignore the extra D’s
i don’t get a lot of homework but i do have a lot of tests. at least i don’t get math test because i have special help with that. there’s just one prob, the week before winter break my friends where watching movies in class while i had to work. not cool. anyway plz vote for me in runway challenge. my models user name is: kristen6873. thanks.
Not cool. Maybe study math for extra 30 minutes. Maybe math just isn’t your natural talent. Well my natural talent is math. But I have plenty of disadvantages. Like my very huge feet. Maybe you have smaller feet than me. AND my skin full of flaws. May be you have better skin than me. AND my not very high voice. AND how I get laryngitis by simply going to music class in school. Maybe you have a good voice.
I missed only one day of school and got a lot of homework : ( that what my stress is about
I stressed out at math and langugue arts and I happy to do language arts and math but math is my favorite subject is math BUT I NOT like MATH I DO MATH
go get a squshiy ball squezze it and call it ur stress ball
I totally know wat she is going through because im stressing too!! so thx for the help
Im totally stressed out at school
these are some things I do
listen to one direction music (they always calm me down)
loom knit
read a book (usually the hunger games series)
eat (sometimes, it works!)
paint my nails
One Direction! Huzzah
That got posted quick xD
I love one direction, I listen to Pandora when doing my homework. I usually work out on my mom’s treadmill to reduce stress. And listen to music
omg your avatar is just like mine!
This sounds like me
I usually read because it’s easy for me to tune everything else out and mostly because it’s easier to focus on someone else’s problems instead of yours. (I’m a total bookworm, btw
)
Me two! I love it when you get so into a book, you start to feel the characters feelings. I just finished the Princess Acadamy. I loved it! It was the like first book I read that had a little violence in it.. Dang it, you bandits! Have you read it?
No! But when I get stressed out OR dream about having bad grades in my report card, I feel like Nikki Maxwell in Dork Diaries.
But I want to read it. This comment is not posting because I’m posting it quickly!
Me to!
-yellowhair
Is that the deaf girl from the show ‘switched at birth’? Does anybody know?
I don’t think so.
Oh…thanks! Bye the way…. Do you watch that show?
No, I’ve never seen that show!
What shows do you like to watch?
I don’t have a TV so I don’t watch a lot of shows… but I love design and DIY and cooking shows!
Cool! Have you ever seen what not to wear?
I think so
it does look like her! I thought it was at first!
~Smileygrl
Yeah…..do u like that show?
i’ve only seen it once.
~Smileygrl
What show is it/
I feel like that all the time and it is hard
love this p.s has everyone forgot about sk8trgrl
wat happenned to her
Some of the girls think that she is in St. Jude. I am not sure.
-yellowhair
or she’s really busy or quit FP.
~Smileygrl
Well, I had an idea. What IF she didn’t like wanna be in the fashion girls anymore and wanted to be by herself on FP Girl and so she changed her name and her model. Or she could have gotten grounded >.< WORSE PUNISHMENT EVER!
thanks for the great ideas
Hey I totoly get it i jet so streesed so I just take breks
try also playing with some thing in the hand u are not writing with and bring uer i pod or use a phone to call a friend.
;0 I hope u enjoyed
I know wut u mean. I have final exams this week and i need to pass them. And my algebra grade is very low! So im under a lot of stress to get it up before report cards.(6weeks ends thursday)
go to the spy
i do not like school that much it is boring.
Firstie thirstie! I totally know what you’re talking about! My first dance class is coming up soon because my friend Ruby got me into dance, I have a gymnastics meet coming up, a play soon, a choir concert tomorrow, and tons of schoolwork! I just so to the salon. It really helps!
-Amber
*I just go to the salon
But your lucky you are in choir. Because I didn’t make it and that post audition turned it into a TOTAL catastrophe. But pre audition everything was AMAZING!